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Writing Research – Victorian Era

ghostflowerdreams:

In historical fiction it is important to be accurate and the only way to do so is to research the era. What is highly recommended by many writers is to write your story first. While writing your story, mark the parts that you’re not sure are correct and then do the research after you are done. This is to prevent you from doing unnecessary research that may not be relevant to your work. You want to spend your time wisely! Or you can just research as you go, it’s really whatever works for you since there isn’t a “wrong” way to research.

To begin, the Victorian era of the British history (and that of the British Empire) formally begins in 1837, which was the year Victoria became Queen and ends in 1901 – the year of her death. It was a long period of peace, prosperity, refined sensibilities and national self-confidence for Britain. Some scholars date the beginning of the period in terms of sensibilities and political concerns to the passage of the Reform Act 1832. [1]

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riptidepublishing:

Start 2018 off with a celebration of WLW by participating in Jae’s Lesbian Book Bingo! (Please note that despite the name, it’s all WLW, not just lesbians.) Jae’s going to be posting suggested reading lists twice a month, all year long, for each individual bingo square, but we thought we’d kick it off with some recs of our own (please note I’m linking to the publisher page, but these titles are available wherever books are sold online, and in some brick and mortar stores):

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dragons-bookshelf:

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probablygoodrpgideas:

Make sure the system you use matches the kind of players you have, for an optimal experience

Admin Note: This is part of the ongoing series called “D&D isn’t the only TTRPG if you don’t want fantasy play another goddamn game!”

I already reblogged this once but this is important:

Like I run a D&D blog. I understand that D&D is the most well-known and popular RPG in the world. But a lot of the time I see people going like “Hey I want to run a D&D campaign and throw out all the D&Disms and here’s all the notes I have for running a campaign about courtly romance and chivalry in a historical setting” and I’m just like STOP YOU DON’T NEED TO RUN THIS USING D&D

There’s a sort of a mistaken assumption that because D&D is the biggest game on the market and that it’s fantasy that it should be the go-to fantasy game but look it’s not D&D isn’t a generic fantasy game it’s a very specific kind of fantasy all of its own, one that steals liberally from swords & sorcery and high fantasy and adds fucking extradimensional cube robots for good measure

So next time you’re thinking about a fantasy campaign in a decidedly non-D&Dish setting consider instead of jamming the square peg that is D&D into a round hole trying to find a system that actually supports what you’re trying to do

And this is not to say that you shouldn’t play D&D: D&D is hella fun. But there’s a lot of genres and styles that D&D does a piss-poor job of doing, and because of that it’s so good we’ve got other games

*cracks knuckles*

All right then. I’ve been meaning to dust off my own D&D sideblog for a while, so here we go with providing some examples. I’m limiting this specifically to other types of fantasy outside of the standard high fantasy and sword & sorcery millieu.

Courtly Romance and Chivalry

There are a number of options for this, and they range from standard secondary world fantasy to more historical and mythological settings. My list here shouldn’t be treated as fully extensive.

Blue Rose – based on the romantic fantasy subgenre, specifically as seen in the works of Tamora Pierce and Mercedes Lackey. A lot of courtly drama and intrigue and swashbuckling, based in a fictional world.

Pendragon – naturally based off of Arthurian mythology, and having a lot of stuff given over to the court of Camelot and the chivalric adventures of the various knights. The same company also has a kickstarter for a spin-off called Paladin: Warriors of Charlemagne that might be worth checking out.

Historical Fantasy

This one’s a bit more prominent as historical settings serve as an inspiration for a variety of fantasy worlds and games, and this of course invariably extends to settings that actually use historical settings with a degree of fantasy elements thrown in. Note that I’m going to emphasise Europe here simply due to greater familiarity with games in that millieu, and as a European myself I’m ill-equipped to judge how accurate or respectful games using other settings actually are.

Because of this, feel free to add other examples in reblogs

Chivalry & Sorcery – one of the early tabletop games inspired by D&D, taking a more pseudo-historical approach.

It’s based on 12th century France and strives for a degree of historical accuracy and medieval politics.

World of Darkness, Dark Ages (including Vampire and Mage) – while the World of Darkness has earned some negative attention lately (and for good reason), the dark ages RPGs are still an old favourite of mine. Also worth checking out is Mage: The Sorcerer’s Crusade, set during the Renaissance. The Mage stuff has a really cool open-ended magic system worth checking out.

Ars Magica – this exists along very similar lines to the dark age material above, based around mages and magic-users in a ‘Mythic Europe’ setting. It also has a really cool open-ended magic system, and one of my personal favourites.

Awwww shit heck yes I might want to add to this list but this is a really good starting point

ALWAYS MAKE SURE TO FIND THE SYSTEM FOR YOU

13th Age RPG

A Song of Ice and Fire RPG

AEG (A Legend of the Five Rings)

Anima; Beyond Fantasy 

Apocalypse World 

Basic Fantasy System

Blades in the Dark

Burn Bryte

Burning Wheel  

Call of Cthulhu

Castles & Crusaders 

Chroniques Oubliées

City of Mist

Cortex 

Cyberpunk 2020

Cypher System

D&D (All Editions)

Das Schwarze Auge

Dragon Age RPG 

Dungeon Crawl Classics 

Dungeon World 

Exalted

FATE System

Fallout

Fantasy AGE 

Fiasco 

GUMSHOE

GURPS 

Gamma World

Hero Games (Champions) 

Hackmaster 

Hârn

Iron Kingdoms 

King Arthur Pendragon

Labyrinth Lord 

Le Donjon de Naheulbeuk

Maid RPG 

Marvel Heroic RPG

Mouse Guard RPG

Munchkin

Mutants and Masterminds

Open Legend

Palladium Games 

Paranoia 

Pathfinder

Pokemon Tabletop

Rolemaster

Runequest

Savage Worlds

Shadowrun 

Star Trek Adventures 

Star Wars 

Starfinder 

Stars Without Number

Swords and Wizardry 

Tavern Tales

The One Ring

The Quiet Year

Tormenta

Traveller RPG

Unisystem

Warhammer

World of Darkness

COMPLETE TABLETOP RPG ARCHIVE

Halloween-ish book recs

havingbeenbreathedout:

Having recently spent time in various retail outlets, I’m reliably informed we’re starting to get in the Halloween spirit. As it happens, I’ve read some great ghost stories, creepy tales, and otherwise spooky stuff this year, so I thought I’d do my part by writing up a little rec list. Many of these are not exactly obscure—Machado is a darling of queer readerly circles, and the Ward won the 2017 National Book Award—but I’m sharing the wealth in case they’re new to you!

Her Body and Other Parties by Carmen Maria Machado: Queer short stories with an excellent ear for both pop culture (several of these stories are laugh-out-loud funny, in addition to shivering one’s spine) and a sort of X-Files-esque aesthetic of the eerie and the fantastic. Many of these stories have a vibe of dark fairy-tales reworked through queer and feminist lenses (“The Husband Stitch,” “Mothers”). Others play with format in really delightful and effective ways: “Inventory,” for example, takes the form of a list of all the people with whom the author has had sex, and only as the story progresses does a larger, darker narrative begin to peek in at the edges. Likewise, “Especially Heinous” presents us with 272 episode summaries from Law & Order: SVU, which gradually diverge (I ASSUME) from the actual episodes as the story goes along. This is one of the less scary volumes on this list, but it’s still spooky enough to be satisfyingly Halloween-appropriate.  

Sing, Unburied, Sing by Jesmyn Ward: The ghosts in Ward’s novel are literal—the characters have an everyday, working relationship with the supernatural, including the presences of people who have died—but they’re also figurative. Sing, Unburied, Sing is deeply engaged with the lasting legacy of the US prison system and its various ghosts: the ghosts of the slave plantation that live on in the forced prison labor required disproportionately of Black men; the ghosts of their own past traumas that haunt the formerly-incarcerated; the ghosts of their absent fathers that haunt the children even of still-living prisoners; and the legacy of poverty that this system passes on from one generation to the next. I am probably about the 69238th person to compare this novel to Toni Morrison’s Beloved, but the ghosts do work similarly here: they’re both a fact of life for these characters, part of the ingrained fabric of the natural world; and also a way of talking about horrific systemic oppression; and both levels work extremely well. I also appreciated Ward’s ability to maintain empathy for all her point-of-view characters, even when they are making heartbreaking and destructive decisions. The meth-addicted and un-maternal mother Leonie would have been particularly easy to demonize, but Ward resists the temptation, something I very much respect. 

Fever Dream by Samantha Schweblin: This short novel is EXTREMELY CREEPY. Y’all. It creeped me the fuck out. Honestly I don’t even want to say much about it beforehand, since part of the effect depends on immersing yourself in the (literally) fevered, stream-of-consciousness(ish) narration for long enough to figure out what’s happening. I read it all in one sitting of about three hours, and I thought it was incredibly effective: claustrophobic, disorienting, and reminiscent of the feeling of being trapped in a nightmare, in a way that the reader can’t help but share. I especially liked way Schweblin leaves the story very open to several extremely different interpretations of what’s going on—all of which are scary, just in different ways. A seriously well-written and freaky little book. 

Things to Do When You’re Goth in the Country by Chavisa Woods: Those who liked the Machado collection will probably like this one, too. It has a similarly assertive level of queerness (maybe even more so), a similar sort of dry, situational humor, and a similar feel for the eerie and the grotesque—though the fantastical in Woods’s fiction tends less fairy-tale, more Weird Science. Woods’s collection focuses particularly on the experience of growing up extremely poor in extremely rural American towns—her narrator-protagonists are generally adults either returning to, looking back on, or otherwise trying to engage with, the small towns of their childhoods. For my money, the three strongest stories are “How to Stop Smoking in Nineteen Thousand Two Hundred and Eighty-Seven Seconds, Usama” (in which the queer, big-city sister returns to the town of her origin and has a weird, and then weirder, and then TRULY weird night), “Zombie” (in which two pre-adolescent girls befriend the inhabitant of their local graveyard), and “What’s Happening on the News?” (which deals, in multiple ways, with the inculcation of value systems in children—in particular, evangelical Christianity and US military recruitment). 

Things We Lost in the Fire by Mariana Enriquez: This collection is the second on this list from Argentina (the first being the Schweblin), so apparently there’s a lot of great literary horror coming out of Buenos Aires right now. Enriquez’s work is more standard scary-story fare than the Schweblin, but these stories are  notable for their extremely well-evoked sense of place. One memorable and cheer-worthy story, “Spiderweb,” takes place in the rural north, during a vacation shared by a woman and the unpleasant man she impetuously married, but for most of these stories, “place” means the poorer neighborhoods of Buenos Aires. In a story like “The Dirty Kid,” for example, the rampant poverty becomes a kind of supernatural spectre in its own right, or at least makes it difficult for the narrator to distinguish between everyday cruelty and supernatural darkness. Other stories use Buenos Aires as a covertly post-apocalyptic setting, or past political turmoil as an ominous backdrop for a coming-of-age tale. Overall a very satisfying & well-executed scary-story collection. 

The Third Hotel by Laura van den Berg: When I finished this novel I told @greywash​ that “The film adaptation should be directed by David Lynch… except it’s also outspokenly feminist, so actually, maybe not.” Van den Berg does have a great sense for the kinds of details that make Lynch films enjoyable, though, and The Third Hotel—in which the recently-widowed elevator saleswoman Clare goes to Havana on a film-festival trip originally planned out with her late husband Richard (a film studies professor specializing in horror) only to repeatedly glimpse the supposedly-dead Richard in various places throughout the city—hits most of them: doppelgangers, pseudo-resurrection, people putting on different personae for reasons they themselves don’t entirely understand, travel that gets surreally out of control, nightmarish parties, unexplained interpersonal quirks, the breakdown of domestic life, the spooky underbelly of everyday Americana, and so on. At the same time, van den Berg offers some sharp commentary on the kinds of social burdens and expectations that are placed on women, and how women’s weirdnesses are processed differently to those of men. A highly recommended and super addictive read. 

artemisastarte:

a-candle-for-sherlock:

@brilliantorinsane said: On my to-do list: Learn more about lgbt+ history (are there any queer books on those shelves that you’d particularly recommend, a-candle-for-sherlock?).

Yes! Glad you asked! 💕🏳️‍🌈

The Pink Triangle—the queer holocaust in Nazi Germany.

Strangers—a history of queer Victorian London.

Queer, There and Everywhere—queer people who’ve impacted world history.

Stone Butch Blues—a novel of the mid century working class queer in America. (CW: assault, violence)

Far From the Tree—for the chapter on queer kids with cishet parents.

Redefining Realness—activist Janet Mock’s memoir of growing up trans in Hawaii.

Torn—a pastor’s son’s manifesto of coming to terms with his religion and his queerness.

Christopher and His Kind–a memoir of literary queer Berlin in the 1930s.

My Days and Dreams–a memoir by an upper-class, openly partnered gay Victorian.

A Problem in Greek Ethics–a Victorian study (pub. 1883) of queer male partnership in classical history.

Mutants–for the chapter on intersex medical history.

Maurice–an Edwardian novel, the first to present a happy, healthy gay relationship between adult equals.

Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers–a history of sapphic women in America.

The Celluloid Closet–an exploration of classic Hollywood and queerness.

Cold War Femme–sapphic women onscreen in the Cold War era.

The Last Anniversary–not historical, just a great mystery novel with TWO non-tragic gay subplots.

I’m Looking Through You–a memoir of growing up trans in 1960s Ireland.

How To Grow Up–author Michelle Tea’s memoir of queerness and love and learning to take care of yourself.

I have more but those are favorites! Anyone want to add to the list? @artemisastarte, @astronbookfilms, @blaetter?

Sorry, I am totally failing to link these.

Nameless Offences, Harry Cocks: how the Victorians named the unnameable sin. Thoroughly recommended for discussions of police procedure, prosecutions and blackmail.

Queer Street, Hugh David. A social history of British Homosexuality 1895 to 1995. How Victorian homosexuality was criminalised, through repression and decriminalisation, to the AIDS era.

London And The Culture Of Homosexuality, 1885 to 1918, Matt Cook. One of the best single discussions of the effects of the Labouchère Amendment.

Masculine Desire, The Sexual Politics of Victorian Aestheticism, Richard Dellamora. Brilliant but difficult read with serious consideration given to how homosociality was constrained by homophobia from crossing the line into genital expression of ardent friendships: covers Tennyson, Ruskin, Pater, Hopkins, and the post-Labouchère rise of compulsory heterosexuality.

Homosexuality and Civilisation, Louis Crompton. Lengthy discussion of homosexuality throughout Western history, stops before Victorian era but excellent background. Ends in 1810, but covers Ancient Greece etc.

The Sins of Jack Saul, Glenn Chandler. Short history of Jack Saul, a key witness in the Cleveland Street affair of 1889, also covers the Dublin Castle Affair of 1884. Very useful background.

Queer London, Matt Houlbrook. Gay London, 1918 to 1957. Would be useful for anyone writing WWI and WWII AUs.

Sodom on the Thames, Morris B Kaplan. An odd little book, tripartite structure (Cleveland St, Paederastia in Eton, Wilde) useful primarily for the middle section which focuses on homoeroticism between members of the aristocracy and their Eton tutors. Extremely relevant because many of the people involved in non-genital but homoerotic ‘paederastia’ later went on to be pillars of the establishment (Rosebery, foreign secretary and Prime Minister, Curzon, Viceroy of India.)

Also recommended for source material is the Columbia Anthology of Gay Literature, which covers other than Western societies, and through time.

That’s all I can think of off the top of my head. I’ll find the specifically lesbians ones tomorrow.

sea shanties masterpost

fortuitoussstarfish:

“one man cannot bring in the anchor. ten men cannot bring in the anchor. but together we can.”

making this because it’s useful for my specific brand of dramaturgy and i generally have a good deal of feelings about sea shanties. these are the result of far too much time searching around for shanties that are both authentic and have a tune that can be found on the internet. organized by theme.

these can all be done a capella, obviously, but if you want accompaniment, getting your hands on a concertina would be ideal.


General Shanties

Roll the Old Chariot Along (David Coffin)

Haul Away, Joe (The Eskies)

Rant and Roar (Howling Gael)

Haul Away the Bowline (The Exmouth Shantymen)

Departing

Away Rio (David Coffin)

Leave Her, Johnny (Coda)

The Rosabella (skip to 3:15) (Wareham Whalers)

Off to Sea Once More (The Black Irish Band)

Clear Away in the Morning (Great Bay Sailor) 

South Australia (Johnny Collins)

Randy Dandy Oh (Johnny Collins)

Girls

With You, Fair Maid (skip to 14:30) (Before the Mast)

Spanish Ladies (unknown artist) (psa this one is in moby-dick!!)

Bully in the Alley (skip to 24:10) (Before the Mast)

London Julie (Three Sheets to the Wind)

Excursion Round the Bay (The Fables)

The Maid of Amsterdam (The Roaring Trowmen)

Storms

Round Cape Horn (Cyril Tawney)

Fish in the Sea (youtube user threelegsomen)

To Old Maui (skip to 9:28) (Before the Mast)

Drinking

The Boatman’s Cure  (John Roberts)

Drunken Sailor (Irish Rovers)

Fifteen Men (unknown artist)

Newer/Environmentally Conscious

No More Fish, No More Fisherman (David Coffin)

The Last Leviathan (skip to 13:40) (Fisherman Friends) (bit of a stretch to call this a shanty per se but it’s really good and sad so)

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A small list of random ass sites I’ve found useful when writing:

  • Fragrantica: perfume enthusiast site that has a long list of scents. v helpful when you’re writing your guilty pleasure abo fics
  • Just One Cookbook: recipe site that centers on Japanese cuisine. Lots of different recipes to browse, plenty of inspiration so you’re not just “ramen and sushi” 
  • This comparing heights page: gives you a visual on height differences between characters
  • A page on the colors of bruises+healing stages: well just that. there you go. describe your bruises properly
  • McCormick Science Institute: yes this is a real thing. the site shows off research on spices and gives the history on them. be historically accurate or just indulge in mindless fascination. boost your restaurant au with it
  • A Glossary of Astronomy Terms: to pepper in that sweet terminology for your astrophysics major college au needs

Adding to this since I’m working on a shifter au one-shot:

More:

  • Cocktail Flow: a site with a variety of cocktails that’s pretty easy to navigate and offers photos of the drinks. You can sort by themes, strengths, type and base. My only real annoyance with this site is that the drinks are sometimes sorted into ~masculine~ and ~feminine~ but ehhhh. It’s great otherwise.
  • Tie-A-Tie: a site centered around ties, obviously. I stumbled upon it while researching tie fabrics but there’s a lot more to look at. It offers insight into dress code for events, tells you how to tie your ties, and has a section on the often forgotten about tie accessories

Even more: