Polyamory isn’t all about sex. Sure, sex is great but it’s about the little things. Like remembering what they get on their sub or that they like their shirts hung to dry. It’s understanding that it’s not all about you anymore. It’s about the nights at home crafting or redecorating the house. Knowing how everyone likes their eggs cooked and realizing that sometimes we all need alone time. It’s the little things that keep your relationship strong, not the sex.
Tag: polyamory
Polyamorous Punk
imagine your polyship moving in together for the first time, and there’s just so much to do that for weeks, there’s just boxes of people’s belongings everywhere while they slowly get settled in
One thing I’m noticing about being poly is the line between seeing the beauty in people and having crushes on them is so fine it’s nearly indistinguishable.
Very relatable.
This is one of the things I love about being poly. I have made somewhat of a practice in seeming the excellent qualities in others. In some ways I develop a lot of small crushes. It’s hard not to see the beauty in another and think “I’d like that in my life.” Would that I could be everywhere at once. Think of the love I could share. Would that my physical and temporal limitations matched the amount of love I have to give.
I’m sorry but in 20GayTeen can we end the love triangle trend and start the polyamory one
For bisexual and pansexual polyamorous people, realizing they are polyam can be an especially painful process as it can feel as though you are living up to a stereotype or that you are giving bisexuals and pansexuals a bad reputations. However, those who think that being polyamorous is a bad thing and therefore something that bis and pans should be ashamed of having within their community aren’t good people. They’re means and selfish and prioritize their comfort over other people’s happiness. You don’t need to have those kinds of people approve of you. And as for bis and pans being angry at you for “giving them a bad name” anyone with sense knows that polyam people aren’t where that stereotype comes from, it comes from homophobes trying to devalue to importance of bisexual and pansexual people’s love lives. Pan and bi people who will be angry with you would have been angry with you for being any type of polyamorous person simply because they are intolerant.
Nobody who would hate you is worth getting love from.
The dream: being in a polyamorous relationship large enough to function as a dnd party.
Back at it with the John Mulaney memes ✨✨✨
I went on a rant on twitter because I didnt have my coffee to restrain me
The “rules” can be different for every poly/non-monogamous people and their relationships, but some things are universal:
- cheating is horrible and has nothing to do w/ polyamory
- honesty and communication are KEY
- we often have too much affection to give rather than not enough tbh
- who tf has time for orgies everyday?? it’d be so tiring??? also some poly ppl are ace so??? yeah
This is so cute
Here for the underdogs 